Hello, and welcome to a new mini-blog, FAN-uary, where for each of the four weeks this month I’m going to focus on a different Domme whose work I enjoy, and discuss a different video from them each day.
(This one is all video, March will most likely be the same sort of thing, but with audio)
Content reviewed in this blog is Femdom Erotic Hypnosis that will mostly be for sale. I’ll include links to where you can purchase this content, and everything posted here will be positive, but this isn’t about public worship and devotion, and I hope to find and explore interesting concepts and ideas by talking about these works with all of you.
As always, I will disclose what my relationships to these people are, if any, and while this is sale content, these write ups are not intended to be adds.
Making the content I’ll be reviewing here is hard work. It is time consuming, and it is both creatively and emotionally demanding. PAY FOR YOUR PORN.
I DO NOT HAVE A PROFESSIONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE WHOSE WORK I AM REVIEWING AND ENDORSING.
Diana Rey Day 6 of 7: Tit Addiction
Who is this Domme?
Diana Rey (that’s the link to her ABOUT on her site) is, in my words, a hypnotist who puts a focus on creativity, and exploration of the mediums of video and audio to create unique and erotic sexy hypnosis experiences.
Her Twitter handle is @paydianarey, so you should probably get a good sense of a good part of her approach, but she’s not a fuck-you-pay-me domme, and she also offers occult services like tarot readings.
Disclosure: While I don’t really know her in any meaningful way… like I don’t know if she has pets, or is a vegetarian, or anything at all, but she’s someone I consider a friend in the industry and I feel like for the sake of editorial integrity, you all deserve to know that.
But that’s not why I’m doing this, it’s all because of her work.
Purchase Link: Here (Clips4Sale)
-Check her IndieBill listing HERE as well as the link above to find her content-
Was I Hypnotized?
Am I a Brainwashed Slave Yet?
YES! Er… no, because how would that even happen…
Why This Video?
Uh gang, it’s called Tit Addiction and it’s me we’re talking about here…
Does This File Include Masturbation Instruction?
It does not… which kinda surprised me, and honestly I didn’t remember much of what was in this one when I started to re-watch it… but then again I guess I got it like 18ish months ago.
Are There Any Suggestions, Triggers, or Post Hypnotic Suggestions?
Yes! There’s some tit addiction stuff, and there’s also a vert overt either/or set of suggestions around tributing her. I’ll say again, her Twitter handle starts with “pay”, so it’s kind of not a surprise right?
More on this down below.
Other Thoughts/About The Hypnotist?
So while watching this video I did kind of feel an urge to follow her tribute suggestion, and honestly, if that were my thing at all, I probably would have. But, that’s really not what I’m into at all.
I’ve written two articles that I could link to that relate to this session, one’s on hypno-boobs, but I’m going to save that for Friday when we start day 1 of the next person, and the other one is all about ideas of submission, feelings, and findom, and you can read it HERE.
Then when you’re done, you can come back and read this little bit on rejecting suggestions.
So what’s it mean to reject a suggestion, and what does it say about hypnosis, you, and what kind of subject you are?
Well, rejecting a suggestion is not quite the same as one no sticking, or you not being receptive over all.
Rejection, which you “could” say is what occurs any time a suggestion doesn’t take, is simply you disagreeing either consciously or subconsciously with an idea.
There are certain emotional responses to the implication of accepting any kind of suggestion you recognize that may clash with your view of yourself, and then there are very practical forms of rejection that are much more immediate.
If someone suggests I tribute them 43 dollars (not what happens in this session by the way), there are two ways I “could” reject this:
The Overt Way: I don’t have an extra 43 dollars, I just bought this file with the extra money I do have, where’s my jerk off instructions?
The Implication Based Way: If I send her 43 dollars that makes me a money slave, and I’m not a money slave am I, I better not send her that money because that’s not who I am.
And yes, both can happen on the conscious and the subconscious levels of the mind, because you can both reason out and dismantle a suggestion that way, and also instinctively reject a suggestion too.
This doesn’t mean your brain will always protect you from doing things you may think are “stupid”, but in the long history of humanity we’ve never needed hypnosis to make us do dumb and self-destructive things.
The “danger” of hypnosis is that sometimes it can enable us to do the kinds of things we want to do, but know we maybe “shouldn’t” do.
Geez there’s a lot of “quotes” in this one.
Anyhow, there’s more to be said on suggestions as a whole but I think that’s enough for now.
See you all tomorrow for a special edition… oh shit, it’s Valentines Day tomorrow isn’t it? Well, that’s just a ridiculous coincidence…
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3 replies on “Day 13: An Obvious Choice For Me”
Tributing doesn’t really make you a money slave, it really depends on if you have a relationship with the ’tist or not and just how much of your money is sent. If you have $500 dollars of money you can spend on entertainment for that month and you send $50 of that your just showing your appreciation of that ’tist’s work and if it is a person that made said suggestion in the video you are showing them just how good their at with their hypnotic suggestion and that you trust them.
If you didn’t really have any other plans for that money it is just showing appreciation if your sending money you had plans to spend on something else then your a money slave, because your making an active sacrifice specifically to serve that person. You made an active decision of well I don’t really need whatever it is and besides it would make the Domme happy and that is more important. I think that is a big distinction that needs to be made when talking about findom and money slave why it is that you sent the money: was it to feel the arousal you get when you hit the send button or did you have extra money and you want to show support for their work.
Tributing totally makes you a money slave!
(it doesn’t, but here’s my argument why it can be seen than way)
If you give someone money for nothing, which is what a tribute is, a one sided fiscal exchange, money becomes the symbol and means of your submission, so now you’ve at least participated in money slavery.
Why you did and how you feel about it becomes subsumed in the act of submission, and anything more becomes a question of branding.
Now what I’ve just written is a pretty simple (and merciless, maybe even artless) deconstruction of a very complicated concept (this was not my first draft of this reply…) but I think it has some merit as a thought experiment/idea. There’s a lot of dressing up our relationships to money and how/why/when we spend it, and give it in this scene and I think sometimes we can benefit from simplification as much as personal nuance.
I think, as I’ve said in other comments, that obviously nothing in this scene or in the D/s world as a whole is binary, or that there are rules that apply at all times to all things, every relationship is different, I hope that’s a given, and that my use of hyperbole reads as hyperbole, as it’s the literary equivalent of playing to the cheap seats.
I think you’ve been bringing up a lot of good nuance Aaron, and I’m really appreciative of that!!!
-PS, I know other people are reading these, you should join in too-
I get where your coming from, we want to justify what we spend our money on and we all have different mind sets for some any purchase that doesn’t make them more money or improve there life is a waste of money for others any purchase that makes them happy even for a little bit is a worth while purchase.
But yeah the topic of money is definitely complicated