Hello, and welcome to a new mini-blog, FAN-uary, where for each of the four weeks this month I’m going to focus on a different Domme whose work I enjoy, and discuss a different video from them each day.
(This one is all video, March will most likely be the same sort of thing, but with audio)
Important:
Content reviewed in this blog is Femdom Erotic Hypnosis that will mostly be for sale. I’ll include links to where you can purchase this content, and everything posted here will be positive, but this isn’t about public worship and devotion, and I hope to find and explore interesting concepts and ideas by talking about these works with all of you.
As always, I will disclose what my relationships to these people are, if any, and while this is sale content, these write ups are not intended to be adds.
Making the content I’ll be reviewing here is hard work. It is time consuming, and it is both creatively and emotionally demanding. PAY FOR YOUR PORN.
I DO NOT HAVE A PROFESSIONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE WHOSE WORK I AM REVIEWING AND ENDORSING.
Diana Rey Day 5 of 7: -Witch’s Curse
Who is this Domme?
Diana Rey (that’s the link to her ABOUT on her site) is, in my words, a hypnotist who puts a focus on creativity, and exploration of the mediums of video and audio to create unique and erotic sexy hypnosis experiences.
Her Twitter handle is @paydianarey, so you should probably get a good sense of a good part of her approach, but she’s not a fuck-you-pay-me domme, and she also offers occult services like tarot readings.
Disclosure: While I don’t really know her in any meaningful way… like I don’t know if she has pets, or is a vegetarian, or anything at all, but she’s someone I consider a friend in the industry and I feel like for the sake of editorial integrity, you all deserve to know that.
But that’s not why I’m doing this, it’s all because of her work.
Purchase Link: Here (IndieBill)
-Check her IndieBill listing HERE as well as the link above to find her content-
Length:
17:06
Was I Hypnotized?
Yes. This one does a lot to put you in a pretty deep trance.
Am I a Brainwashed Slave Yet?
Don’t tell her, but it’s leaning that way.
Why This Video?
So this was one of those videos where it seemed like a bunch of things I’d like, so much so that I somehow bought it twice, but that’s on me not paying attention to what I have, and what I have/have not watched.
So I finally watched it just now, and if you’re wondering why I selected it, not really knowing what’s in it, it pretty much comes down to: sexy witch.
Does This File Include Masturbation Instruction?
No.
Are There Any Suggestions, Triggers, or Post Hypnotic Suggestions?
Yes. Like Decepticon… er… Panopticon, it is focused on cock and orgasm control. Also the word “curse” is in the title, so that should be an indicator.
Other Thoughts/About The Hypnotist?
Alright, we’re in the Lady Diana Ray homestretch. Tomorrow’s going to be a blatantly sexy video, and then day 7 is going to be an event, but before that, let’s talk about today.
What are the things that get you?
I’ll admit “Sexy Witch” is an aesthetic, a theme, and an identity I can get behind… or I guess I should say kneel in front of.
While I’m neither religious, not am I much of a spiritualist or esoteric, in my mid teens I as 100% into Wicca (Oh, it’s SHOCKING, I know), and while I don’t buy into magic, it’s not too different than me not believing in prayer.
I “could” talk A LOT about the psychology of framing, and how we l0ok for the things we’re looking for, but let’s get back to something slightly more fun (and decidedly less potentially insulting to people’s faiths).
So, what’s a sexy witch anyway?
I think it’s at least superficially self-explanatory, but when has that stopped me before?
Witches are, aside from being magical, another type of authority, and that means there’s a little bit of that authority taboo there too.
Also, that magic part, that’s important too because it makes the witch something unique, something special and while it’s not my favorite term to use, exotic.
So what’s a sexy witch?
An exotic, mystical taboo.
This is also essentially what makes a “Sexy Hypnotist” sexy too.
You know, all of that, plus power.
And that’s to say nothing about the broad cultural language of aesthetics and what makes up someone being “sexy” in general.
But where am I going with all of this?
One of the things I’ve learned in therapy is the importance of being present, and one of the things I’ve felt from even before that, is that it’s important to interrogate what you like and why you like it.
So if you look at what a sexy witch is, or a hypno-domme, or a dominatrix, or any woman that puts herself in a powerful and sexualized position, it’s always good to be present and mindful of what you like and why, not because it will make you like it more, but maybe because it will help you like it better, and possibly even help you know yourself better.
So let me ask you, what do you like? What archetypes, and cliches do you enjoy, and why? Feel free to leave them in the comments.
Also, when interrogating your tastes, be kind to yourself, and be patient with any feelings of shame or confusion you may have.
And finally…
Per Lady Diana Rey, she’s archiving her older stuff and figuring out what’s the best means of re-publishing it, so that means Just Talking will be making a comeback on a timeline that is To Be Determined.
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3 replies on “Day 12: She Cast A Spell On Part Of Me”
If you think about it: evil therapist, witch, succubus, vampire all have the same thing in common, they all involve sexual liberation at the cost of your being. Succubus takes your soul for one extreme pleasurable sexual night. Witches cast a love spell that makes you feel pleasure at the thought of her, while simultaneously torturing you with the same thought. Vampires suck out your life through the extreme hypnotic power or give you their curse of immortality for liberation and freedom: there is no kink shaming there is shame brought upon through society your now a part of a new sexual society.
Evil Therapist constantly brainwashes you into servitude, slowly molding your mind over time until your completely complacent to her will.
Honestly I don’t think you need to know what you like just what you don’t like, if you find a hypnotist your ok with losing yourself too you’ll start discovery what you like is intensified while things you didn’t know you liked becomes present in your mind and those get intensified or rather the things that tist finds more important becomes more intensified.
It is important to know why if you intend to explain your fetish with others, just what it is that makes it special, you also need to know just how much of what you like is too much, you don’t want to stumble into the point where you no longer have any control, where your only thoughts is getting your next trance, to the point that your uncontrollably buying more and more trance videos and become more and more disconnected from this world. You need to know when you have it that point so you know when you have to ease off the brake before you end up revving off the cliff of your reality and the world around you and your fantasy being consumed by their World and becoming your reality. Since it is so easy to get lost if you allow yourself to.
Could someone tell her she means ‘Boudoir’ not ‘Abattoir’?
Oh, I can assure you she means slaughterhouse and not bedroom.
As The Simpsons says, “That’s the joke.” 😀